from nightlife to business; inspired by people watching
LA kids bringing the fire! I’m hecka late on this as I’ve been hearing kids in SF high schools are jerkin their way around city. But still, it’s hella ill.
I notice they’re wearing the Lego Jewelry by Dee and Ricky, made popular by Kanye (and will probably be killed by Marc Jacob).
So after my friend CPak told me she saw “Drag Me to Hell”, it got me thinking. “Drag me to hell” has a nice ring to it, and sounds like the perfect thing to say when “fuck my life” (FML) just doesn’t cut it.
I’d like propose the use of “drag me to hell” (DMTH) in our everyday conversations. I’m not saying we should replace FML. Think of it like this: DMTH is to FML as LMAO is to LOL. This variation in degrees helps us to better communicate how we’re really feeling.
Examples of how to use DMTH vs. FML are below:
| Scenario | DMTH or FML |
| Dropped wallet in puddle | FML |
| Dropped wallet in puddle in the bathroom | DMTH |
| Burn the midnight oil for weeks | FML |
| Burn the midnight oil for weeks then get fired | DMTH |
| Spilled drink on self | FML |
| Spilled drink on crotch region prior to interview | DMTH |
| Meet the girl/guy of your dreams then learn they’re off limits | FML |
| Meet the girl/guy of your dreams, hook up with them, then find out they’re your cousin | DMTH |
| Find hair in your food | FML |
| Find curly hair in your food | DMTH |
I know it’s change, but try it out. Pass it along.
Urban dictionary definition and wikipedia page on it’s way.
DMTH has been approved on urbandictionary.com.
http://dmth.urbanup.com/4018782
I couldn’t help but be inspired after reading this. 
w♠arning: there’s no conclusion to this post.
previously i’ve written about fat mentality. basically when people can see they have a problem, know the solution, but just don’t take the steps toward the solution. like fat people who need to eat right and exercise. it’s right in front of their faces. in that same entry i also noted that fat mentality can be much more difficult to deal with considering it’s not visible.
i’ve been living life and just thinking about situations since then and have discovered a kind of diversion, but not solution, to fat mentality. sometimes when people are physically fat they go on binge diets, or become anorexic, or partake in some other drastic effort to lose weight. people also go on mental binge diets in hopes of a quick fix (i’ll call it that for the sake of maintaining a theme).
this is the scenario where the mentally fat person finally says, “ok. this is bullshit. i’m fat and i need to get unfat and i need to stop eating so much”. but some times they take it too far and just stop eating (partaking in that activity) all together. and no matter how much they don’t eat, they still think it’s not enough. the whole thing stemmed out of good intention but just went overboard until they can’t take it anymore due to lack of understanding safe paths to rehabilitation.
people just do all these other things to supplement eating. smoke. consume things that have no nutritional value, eat just celery and drink water to fill up, sleep, do drugs, just do random shit to occupy their minds until they’re not hungry.
when someone is coming out of a space where they were in an unhealthy state of mind and they want to change, they often go about trying to fix themselves without really knowing how. most often they just detach themselves from the problem. they don’t really get over it, they get as far away from it as possible. this leads to relapse.
For example – a girl is in an abusive relationship. her fat mentality had kept her bound to it for several years. one day she realizes she needs to end the relationship, so she does. (i know it’s over simplified). the important thing to note is that she left the relationship, but didn’t get over the habit. She could go several years thinking she’s better off, thinking she’s healthy, but being human and a creature of habit, there’s a good chance she’ll find herself in the same situation again. she could meet another abusive guy and be right back in the same situation.
the real task for a person suffering from fat mentality is not to just run from or get over their problem, but to identify it, understand it, confront it, and break it. In a sense go through it. that way there’s no turning back to it.
at this point of my entry i don’t really have a solution. it’s just something i’ve observed and experienced personally. i just needed to write it out.
hopefully i’ll be able to think of something more tangeble on the subject rather than just ramble on and on.
Hot Damn! About 4 times a year I go a little nuts about music and scour myspace for new artists then focus on a few and listen to nothing but them.
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Flosstradamus – Yeah Yeah Remix
Kid Sister -Pro Nails (Feat. Kanye west)
N.A.S.A. – Gifted (Feat. Kanye Santogold Lykke Li)
FIRE!
It’s been some time since the presidential debates have been over, so forgive me if this post doesn’t seem very current. I just had to post this as I just stumbled across Kelly Tsai’s piece on Youtube. Kelly Tsai is a dope spoken word artist that I would be the least qualified to describe in a nutshell as I’m not of the spoken word community. I just appreciate it and check out her stuff every now and then online. To learn more about her, here’s the first Google page of Kelly Tsai
Anyhow, after watching all of the debates I never felt like any of the communities that I’m a part of had been addressed. There were Joe Six Packs, Soccer Moms, and the ever so famous Joe the Plumber. Oh, and the Black and White people. That’s when Kelly’s piece, “Black, White, Whatever”, turned the light on in my head and shouted what was on the tip of my brain. Obviously she says it with much more style. Though it’s been posted for a month now, I’m still glad I saw it later rather than never and would now like to share it with you. Enjoy.
BTW this was a featured vid on youtube, so congrats to Kelly Tsai.
“Black, White, Whatever”
Just got back from a mission trip to Vegas, tasked to do Vegas right. And I did, short of doing anything that I’d regret.
I’ve been to Vegas at least 10 times, but never to party, just with the fam. Needless to say, this time couldn’t be more different. Too many details to drop, but below is a recap of the first night.
Friday night:
· Leave SF: 8:15pm
o Let’s go let’s go!
· Land at LV airport: 10pm
o We’re here we’re here!
· Get to the Venetian and check in bags: 10:35pm
o Gotta hurry gotta hurry!
· Throw on new kicks and a vest in the lobby: 10:36pm
o I can’t believe I’m doing this
· Meet the crew in front of Tao: 10:40pm
o Let the games begin
· Get into Tao with bottle service at Tao Beach: 10:45pm
o A scene from Entourage – you get what you pay for (the pic doesn’t do it justice)
· Party hearty: All night long
o Need I say more?
· Wrap it up and crash at the Wynn: Some point in the morning
o Lost my phone in a cab and got it back – whew
That was just the first night.
Other general details: Stayed at the Wynn and Mandalay Bay, clocked in over 12 hours of pool/beach time, talked about politics-girls-business-fashion-media-andhowmuchweneverwantedtoleave, , averaged 1 alcoholic beverage every waking hour, went to 3 clubs over 3 nights, used Mix at Mandalay’s bathroom and had a view of the entire LV strip, was violated by a bachelorette party, found money in pants put there by mentioned bachelorette party, observe pickup artists in action (bizarre), never missed home.
All I know is that I want to go back. It’s not the ladies. It’s not the drinks. It’s not the gambling. There’s just something about the air. Yeah I know it’s fake. But if you don’t take yourself too seriously, let inhibitions go just a little, don’t think about the fat load money you budgeted for the sake of blowing, you can really get comfortable in the city of indulgence.
Bagas Vaby!
OK. So I’m like 2 years late on this, but I’m just now getting into Entourage and the show is just really fresh. They say it’s like Sex and the City for guys, but I don’t know about it. It’s more like Swingers the show. Now the question is, which character do I identify most with? Actually, being a young person, it’s more like who is the person I’d most aspire to be like? For me, it’s either Eric (the loyal manager best friend) or Ari (the bulldog hustling agent). The Alpha/Beta vs. the full out Alpha male. Why did no one tell me to watch this sooner?!
Anyhow, back to the show.
Last week I had a super funky fresh time at the Mezzanine SF, where I saw Thunderheist and Black Ghost. There were free drinks courtesy of sake2me and Colt45 Malt Liquour and free pics at the Nokia photo area. AND there was no cover. All put together by Vice Magazine.
What’s not to like? No cover, free show, free drinks, people way cooler than me, and an opportunity to indulge in narcissisms.
Mezzanine is a sweet venue with 5 bars, a primary dance floor, a loft area, good ventilation, and a kickin sound system. They’ve housed eclectic shows ranging from electro to hip hop with artists like Mos Def, MIA, Keisha Cole, and Anthony Hamilton to name a few. It’s also small enough to provide an intimate setting, but also big enough to dance in. Really I can’t say anything bad about this place.
Thunderheist tore it down that evening with a sick set that felt like a live mix with vocals; each song smoothly transitioned to the next, keeping the the crowd in constant movement. The Lead singer was electric with sass, spice, and charisma. Her confidence was alluring. The sound was electrocrunk. The end of the set was an invitation to stage to the entire audience. Siiiiick.
Sorry, Black Ghost. After a hype set like that two guys behind turn tables just wasn’t hard hitting enough.
I’ve gotta hand it to the folks at Vice. They throw a jumpin party.
Here’s a pic from the stage:
I don’t know who Ken Lee is, but this tribute song to him is incredible.
Eileen and Your Mom
